Being the first holiday without Bernie's dad, we knew that today would be a difficult day. We made the decision a few weeks ago that we would keep the festivities very low key. We would have sandwiches for those that eat turkey, some appetizers, a few side dishes, and a couple of pies. If people wanted to stop by, they could come whenever they wanted. We were not going to have a formal sit down dinner. I don't think any of us could have sat in the dining room and looked at the empty chair where Ed was supposed to sit.
A few of my friends posted this message on Facebook in the last two days and it is absolutely fitting:
My brother had to work today, so my sister-in-law, Gina, stopped by with my new niece. It was so nice to have them here. Alex was a very welcome distraction.
At only 7lbs. now, Alex is still smaller than Vivi's Cabbage Patch Doll. Vivi kept trying to pick Alex up. We had to be very careful to make sure that Vivi didn't get her hands on her cousin unless she was under very strict adult supervision.
Gary and Katie were supposed to come home but unfortunately the big storm kept them in Pittsburgh. Our moms both came over and it was nice to have them here. I really didn't take many pictures, usually I have a ton to post following a holiday. It was a very quiet day. Other than the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade and the on-line pre-Black Friday sales we've been shopping, you would hardly even know it was Thanksgiving. It was exactly the day that we needed.
I hope all of you had a nice holiday with the people that mean the most to you. The one thing this year has taught us is to appreciate the time you are given with them. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the families that are feeling a void left by someone special they have lost.
Today I am thankful that the Cowboys won. No, I am not kidding. The game, or I should say the second half, injected at least a small amount of joy into Bernie's day
Happy Thanksgiving.
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